- {DIY} Programs -

Letting a stranger create the wedding programs = absolutely unfathomable to a Type A bride.

So what was the solution? 

...DIY, of course! ;) 

After these were perfected and printed, we rallied up some family members to help assemble the pages and tie the ribbons on the outside. (Definitely glad to delegate out this part of the work!)

Thanks to George Press for printing. Thanks to Pat and Larry for spending their Friday night stuffing!

- {DIY} Bathroom Basket -

"To our favorite ladies: Whether your skin feels dry or your hair out of place, you're not feeling so fresh or whatever the case; we've put together a basket to help you along. ...Now hurry back out before you miss the next song!"

The women's bathroom is all stocked up for you, ladies! 

- Work Shower -

A big thanks goes out to the wonderful labor and delivery staff for throwing me a shower at work this week! 

Our 4am party was complete with a huge spread of food, a Cosmo magazine full of everyone's "best advice," and the greatest friends and co-workers a girl could ever ask for!

The cutest cupcakes from Barbie!

I love my nurses!!! So lucky! :)

- Happy Halloween -

This groom is creative AND romantic! ;) 

At this time in 12 days, we'll be standing at the altar getting ready to say, "I do!"

Happy Halloween from the [soon-to-be] Flemings! 

- Hotel Parking -

A couple options for parking:

1) The hotel charges a one time fee of $10-15 per day.

However, if you plan to park your car one time after the church and then ride the shuttle to the reception, 

2) The Stadium East parking garage only charges $5. [It it $5 in and out every time, so make sure you will not be leaving!] This parking garage is across the street from the Drury and Millennium, so it's just as convenient [and safe, we were assured] as the hotel parking garages.

- P's and G's Weddings -

We love these pictures from our parents' and grandparents' weddings!  

Mark and Resa Stieren
February 2, 1985
St. Raymond Catholic Church (Raymond, IL)

Ron and Ann Fleming
September 29, 1973
Church of the Ascension (Mt. Olive, IL)

Carl and Martha Beeler 
June 5, 1954
St. Maurice Catholic Church (Morrisonville, IL)

Jim and Penny Stieren
June 27, 1959
St. Mary's Catholic Church (Farmersville, IL)

George and Beverly Dragovich
June 24, 1950
Church of the Ascension (Mt. Olive, IL)

Dean and Viola Fleming
October 12, 1946
First United Methodist Church (Staunton, IL)

So excited to display these at our reception hall! :)

- Housekeeping Items -

As the wedding is only two weeks and some change away (YIKES!), we wanted to mention a few housekeeping items:

-- The hotel blocks have now been released. If you are still hoping to get a room, the Drury has agreed to give you our group rate should a room in the hotel open up.  Last we checked, the Millennium still had plenty of vacancy.

-- Please plan for city traffic on wedding day! Especially with the bridge construction, St. Louis weekend traffic is always unpredictable.  Hopefully traffic will cooperate and you will be able to beat the wedding party down the aisle! ;) 

-- We have reserved free parking in the Laclede parking garage on the corner of Grand and Laclede. The garage is a block away from the church, so also save time to park and walk.  Meter parking is also available on Lindell Blvd. [Make sure your meter has enough time, though, because the cops love to write tickets on this street.]

-- As much as we would love to dismiss row by row after the ceremony, it is not feasible with the time limitations we have before the next Mass starts. The reception doors open at 5:45 pm, so we will begin our receiving line at the reception hall at this time. 

-- For any Catholics in the bunch who will be looking for a Saturday vigil Mass to attend between our ceremony and reception, please CLICK HERE. 

-- In between the ceremony and reception, we encourage you to check in to your hotel rooms.  We are providing a shuttle from Jed's Transportation to continuously loop back and forth between the hotel and reception all night. The first shuttle will depart from the front door of the Drury at 5:30 pm.

Feel free to contact us with any questions! We are so excited that you can be a part of our special day and are looking forward to celebrating with you! :)

[17 days to go!]

- Pampered By Britney -

She makes my hair pretty for the wedding, and I sit in her chair and drink margaritas...

...Sweet deal!

A million thanks to [ex-Madison County Fair Queen and newlywed!] Britney for always fixing my hair exactly the way I like it!  I'm so happy we kept up this friendship from the pageant days, but even happier that I have the world's best hairstylist! :)

- {DIY} Chocolate Spoons -

More goodies are finished for the hotel gift bags! Mom dipped the spoons and I decorated them...

Quote of the night: "Do you think people know how to use a chocolate spoon or should we include instructions?!"

But seriously, do they? :/

- {DIY} Chocolate Pretzels -

In the middle of the Cardinal cheering and the pecan packing, we decorated our white chocolate-covered pretzels! 

These hotel gift bags are gonna be rockin' with all of our favorite things! 

- {DIY} Candied Pecans - Part II -

Addendum to the previous post:

*ahem*

While men may not be quiiite so stellar at multi-tasking, I have to give our boys some credit for their help earlier this week with the hotel gift bag project.

Lesson learned: Let them operate the heavy-duty machinery, and they're good to go!

Thanks, guys! 

- {DIY} Candied Pecans -

Everyone knows women are stellar multi-taskers, and Resa and I were no exception tonight! We used half of our energy to cheer on our St. Louis Cardinals and the other half to bag candied pecans for our hotel guests.

Before the bagging started, we stamped a special message on each card...

[I wish I could take credit for baking the pecans, but that was ALL my sweet momma earlier this week!]

Cardinals clinch the series: 1 day!

I marry my best friend: 20 days!!!  

- {DIY} Boutineers -

Groom, groomsmen, mothers of bride/groom, fathers of bride/groom, grandparents, musicians, lectors, program attendants, and wedding hosts: you officially have finished boutineers!

We [and by we, I actually mean my dad] used today to wrap flowers and put final touches on everyone's boutineers/corsages/wrist bands.

They are gorgeous! I love the purple feathers on the groomsmen's boutineers.

Thank you in advance to whoever gets stuck pinning all of these on wedding day! [Hopefully you won't LITERALLY be getting stuck! ;)]

- {DIY} Party Favors -

The past few weeks have been busy busy busy with finishing up our DIY-projects; one project we wrapped up was the party favors. Each plate at the reception will get a silver-tied baggie of these chocolate nuggets!

Brian and I spent [you don't even want to know how many] hours working on the favors one night, and only 75 were finished when we were ready to throw in the towel.  Tons of thanks to my grandparents, aunt, and cousins for creating an awesome assembly line  this week to finish off the rest!

[Squeeze in for a picture!  I promise they weren't forced to work this closely all day!]

- Table Runners -

We are in LOVE with these gorgeous shimmery table runners, but man did they come wadded up and wrinkled!  30 minutes and 13 runners later, I was SO over the ironing board...

...So Grandma to the rescue! :)

 

Perfecting the hanging technique was Grandpa's job. We don't want those bad boys to acquire one more wrinkle before November 10!

With her 42 and my 13, the reception hall should be set to go. Thanks, Grandma and Grandpa!  [Sorry you got the grunt work.]

- {DIY} Wedding Wands -

Wedding wands are almost finished! Thanks to my sweet aunts and grandma for helping in the assembly line this week. 

The wands will be taking the place of bubbles, rice, and rose petals [or anything else you were hoping to throw at us!]. Get ready to wave them loud and proud!  

[One month to go!]

- Catholic Masses -

For all the Catholics in the group who will be looking for a Mass in St. Louis, here are a few of our very favorites:

SATURDAY VIGIL:

St. Vincent de Paul
1408 S. 10th St.
St. Louis, MO  63104

• 4:30 pm

[I song lead here on Saturday afternoons and hold this parish and these parishioners very close to my heart! Perfect fit in between our ceremony and reception...and only a few blocks away from The Cedars.]

*****
SUNDAY:

St. Vincent de Paul

1408 S. 10th St.

St. Louis, MO  63104

• 9:00 am
• 11:00 am

*****

Saint Francis Xavier College Church
3628 Lindell Blvd.
St. Louis, MO  63108

• 8:30 am
• 10:30 am
• 4:30 pm
• 9:00 pm (Our favorite Mass EVER, hands down!)

[The church where we are getting married! :)  Also the place where I song led in college and where Brian and I started going to Mass together. The 4:30 and 9pm Masses are led by SLU students.]

*****
Shrine of St. Joseph
1220 N. 11th St.
St. Louis, MO  63106

• 11:00 am

[I song led at a military conference here last month. Huge, beautiful church. Can't wait to go back!]

*****

Cathedral Basilica

4431 Lindell Blvd.

St. Louis, MO  63108

• 8:00 am
• 10:00 am
• 12:00 noon
• 5:00 pm

[For all you traditional Catholics... ;)]

*****

If none of these suggestions fit your schedule, you can CLICK HERE to use this awesome Mass finder on the Archdiocese's website! 

- Bridal Shower -

My aunts hosted an amazing bridal shower at the Wooden Nickel Winery last weekend! I was so excited and am still so honored by everyone who came to celebrate.

This cute groom crashed the party towards the end!

Thank you hostesses! 

With all these awesome shower gifts, I'd say it's time to turn this bachelorette into a wife! ;)

- {DIY} Thank You Cards -

Welcome to our card shop! My mom and I love to stamp and cut and tape and be creative, so we thought we'd get ahead of the game with a little card-making this weekend. [Thanks, Mom, for letting me dip into your stamp collection!]

Bridal shower thank yous, bachelorette party thank yous, musician thank yous, and wedding gift thank yous are ready to "THANK YOU!"

Thank you, thank you, thank you everyone! 

- Rehearsal Dinner -

Attention family, bridesmaids, groomsmen, musicians, readers, and anyone else who is involved in our Mass: this post has tons of important information for you! [So take notes.] Practice makes perfect, which means you're invited to our rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding! :)


Friday, November 9, 2012

Rehearsal is at 5:30pm.

Saint Francis Xavier College Church

(at Saint Louis University)

3628 Lindell Boulevard

Saint Louis, MO  63108

Please save time for maneuvering through city traffic, parking, and walking! Park in Laclede Garage on the corner of Grand and Laclede. [CLICK HERE for directions.] We have free parking passes that will be distributed inside the church once the rehearsal is finished. 

*****

After the church portion, we will head to the hotel for dinner. [AKA - the "Last Supper!"]

Appetizers and cocktails begin at 7:00pm.

[Dinner to follow.]

Drury Hotel at the Arch

2 South 4th Street 

Saint Louis, MO  63102

The dinner will be held in the Lewis Room of the hotel.  

*****

Map from SFX College Church to the Drury:

Click image to enlarge or print.

Point A (church):

3628 Lindell Boulevard

Saint Louis, MO  63108

Point B (hotel): 

2 South 4th Street 

Saint Louis, MO  63102

*****

- Mailing Monday -

It's mailing Monday...

...which means the invitations are making their way to your mailboxes! :D

- {DIY} Flowers -

My parents' house is spewing flowers, flowers, and even more flowers... Let me just say one thing: planning a wedding gets a LOT more interesting when the father of the bride is also the FLORIST!!!

The week after Brian put a ring on it [literally...a week...or maybe it was only like 5 or 6 days], we were raiding every Hobby Lobby, Michaels, Jeffrey Alans, and Old Time Pottery within a 65-mile radius of our house. 

...Annnnd we basically bought out the purple section in every Hobby Lobby, Michaels, Jeffrey Alans, and Old Time Pottery in that 65-mile radius.

"What do you think of these?!"  ...It's fine Dad, it's fine...

He's one of a kind...

Good thing there were no other shoppers!

By the end of our twenty-something-th trip, I was over the wedding flower business and onto the BABY business! ;) ;) Joking, of course. [Luckily, the FOB was too engrossed in flower picking to notice this pose!]

So proud of his purchases!

Cheers to the winter/spring/summer/every season/never-ending flower project in our basement! Goodbye, Dad... See ya in November!

- Fr. Meconi -

Meet our fabulous priest, Fr. Dave Meconi! After the first day in his theology class at SLU, he was instantly added to my "let's be friends forever" list. 

He. Is. Wonderful. Like really, really wonderful. So wonderful, in fact, that he and the church were the first things we "booked" after the engagement.

Bridget: Will you marry me?!

Fr. M: ...*pause*...If you mean will I marry you and Brian, then yes!

Yeah, sure, I guess that's what I meant. ;) 

We are so grateful to have him as our celebrant and so blessed to call him our friend!  

[...And in 1.5 months, YOU will be lucky enough to meet and love him, too!]

- {DIY} Invitations - Part II -

Happy "Stuffing Saturday" to us! ;) 

We sat around my kitchen table for several hours stacking, taping, sticking, folding, and stuffing [and even squeezed in two meals during the process!]. At the end of the day, the invitations were finally completely assembled and ready to go! Yeah!

What a relief! Now we're just counting down to the 8-week mark so we can drop these guys in the mail... So excited! 

- Love Story -

I stole this idea from Pinterest, and it was the perfect project for a rainy day. Love it! 

~ Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite. ~